Some say
the world is falling sick, I would say that it has been sick for thousands
years. Things changed. The telecommunication technology is getting advanced
with time; it improved the efficiency of the connection among human beings.
Previously, we just had cell phone to make voice call, that time the connection
wasn’t that good. Right now we have internet which is available most of the
area and smart phones are getting cheaper when the new model is being brought
into the market. People can get on the line and communicate with another
through internet with their smart phone. Of course, the speed of the connection
is still improving, now it is considered sufficiently fast.
However,
what surprised me the most is that people are not really comfortable with
face-to-face communication. And this kind of communication is somehow getting a
long way behind the efficiency of internet communication. We don’t like to
converse with people who are physically present around us but we choose to chat
with the people far away from us with the electronic device. Maybe people
around you are not as important as the people you chose to chat with. But
wouldn’t it be weird to see all people coming out for lunch and each of them
having their faces down looking to their phones and being silent throughout the
lunch. Normally, people find it normal and acceptable because everyone behaves
the same. In my opinion, the behavior of majority never has the right to determine
the norm but the Creator of the world who created for His purpose does. This
phenomenon is considered common but abnormal. We are given a mouth not only for
gustatory enjoyment but for communication. Our God communicates in trinity for
eternity; they dwell in one another in love through the communication of love.
We were created so to manifest the love of God through communication.
Besides
that, I realized that people nowadays choose to get involved into topics which are
not heavy and head-aching. They prefer to talk about something funny or casual
instead of something critical or serious. When you talk about hobbies and
entertainment, they never failed to be active in that conversation, but when
you would like to know about their opinion on something serious, silence
normally becomes their reply. I believe it is either they choose not to give
any comment or they really never thought of that before. Normally, when I
shared some ideas and opinions with other people, I am actually looking forward
some feedback. Some might disagree what I said, but sadly they don’t seem to be
confident enough to present their opinions, some just anyhow disagree my points
without having their own opinions just because they don’t think it is right to
comment on other people.
In my
opinion, human right is being protected in a very superficial way. We all know
that we have our human right being protected in this post-modern era. If you
violate my right, the whole world would punish you, because this is the age of
humanism. Therefore, no one can force me to do something that I don’t want to
do. But we often misunderstand this kind of human right and abuse it most of
the time. We would say: “I have my own
human right and you should take care of it, you shouldn’t give any comment on
my life, get away from me and take care of your own business please.” However,
this mistake influences us in a way that makes people to be over-protected and
vulnerable. Eventually, we can’t take unpleasant comments and unfavorable words
from honesty, most of the time we would overreact. However, I really hope my
friends can realize that differences are not scary at all, but the fear of
facing differences can kill us. Don’t we have the right to speak and make our stand
clear? What makes us so afraid of revealing the differences by telling the
truth we believe?
However, some
often say: “Different people have different opinions. I can’t say yours is
wrong.” What is the message of the statement? They refuse to comment or they
don’t know how to entertain you? I am really surprised of how often I got this sort
of reply in my life. I believe someone is trying to draw us from the truth and
I can tell. We spend time on reading the most popular book, facebook and look
how people enjoy their lives. The old folks spend time to look for the latest
news from newspaper, try to stay up-to-date. But all these things that we can know are other people's things, mostly irrelevant to us. But that's all we like to know! In fact, what should we be looking for? We
should be looking for the truth of life, shouldn’t we? The truth that give you a new and everlasting life. A life that you never had before! A life that your spirit desires ever since you were born! But what we are afraid of? We are afraid of knowing the truth that we never want to accept.
Humans throughout the history tend to run away from God, as what Adam did after
he sinned against God.
It is sarcastically
paradoxical enough to see that we need someone to tell us the truths but we are
afraid to face them. My friends, it is well saying that everyone has their own
thinking. But what I would say next is that not every thought is true in the
eye of God. (Judges 21:25) In those days there was no king in Israel;
everyone did what was right in his own eyes (Proverbs21:2). Every man's
way is right in his own eyes, But the LORD weighs the hearts. We don’t want to live under
the sovereignty of God; we want to be independent from God. But what we need
the most is the truth, the purpose of living. The Word is the only savior that
can save us from this miserable world.
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