We change our lives, or it works oppositely.

Some people were fed by using a golden spoon, but some people were in hunger always once they were brought to the world. Seemingly, it is blessed to be born with a golden spoon but meanwhile it can be the worse one if they don't cherish the grace and take it granted in their life. They found nothing but emptiness throughout their life. On the other hand, those people who are born with a poor family background can be a doom if they didn't strive to change the so-called fate. However, it can be a blessing if they are trying their whole life to overcome those problems with all sorts of great attitudes determinedly. That's why I strongly believe in a principle : Attitude is altitude.

Life keeps making change of them, molding them into someone in the future, we have no idea how bad or good they can be. Some people accept their life is fated in some ways, but some choose to make a change in their lives regardless what they may sacrifice for it. I believe that in fact life really changes our own mind unwittingly. For instance, our family background, the environment that we were born and live at, the people we meet in our lives did determine what kind of persons we are. How can be a poor guy so arrogant when he finds his family so shameful to be financially incapable? Most poor people really get used to be slave-like and diffident, in the world, poor people rarely get entertained or concerned in our society nowadays. In this situation, our life is considered fated without precious changes.

Thank God as I found that there have been a lot of changes throughout my life and I have to admit that the people around me and the experiences I encountered before did help me to change my mindset greatly and positively. Many of my friends told me that I have changed a lot. Surely, they didn't mean that I am still growing up physically.=.=

I wish to share something over here.
I got a crazy friend who is currently at Nepal. If it is not mistaken, he went there with an crazy intention - Mt. Everest hiking. I am not so sure, that's why I am looking forward to read his blog, by the way I am pretty sure that must be a great one! This friend has left his foot prints on many places of different countries without much friends followed him in any trips. Some people talked at his back about what he is doing in these few years, some people admired while some people find it inappropriate somehow. In my opinion, I think he is trying to make changes in his life while hoping for something new filling the world of his mind during the process of traveling in so-call adventurous trekking.However, I quite admired this kind of life, and the passion he is possessing now, no one dare to make changes in their own lives with actions, it takes quite a lot of courage and faith to do so. Perhaps this friend gets used to be so rebellious to the rules and regulations in an ordinary life, so it might not be a problem for him to break the rules. Haha~kidding~ It seems like he is changing his life, but in fact he is actually allowing his life to mold him little by little. I am not sure whether he knows or not, or I am thinking wrongly, what we did is like the pieces of puzzles that complete the beautiful figure of our life. After all, we can see that our life does the matter to mold us anyway.

Sincerely hope everyone of you can strive to make a change of your life so that your life can change you as well.