Monday, January 14, 2013

Life is full with problems

Once again, I am studying in UM main library. It is still and silent until we can clearly hear the voice of the operating air-conditioners. I have studied for about 7 hours, and finally I put my notes aside and started to enjoy watching running man. I am not a fan of Running Man yet, but I think I will be the part of fans very soon. I quite appreciate this kind of entertaining program which brings a lot of laughter and happiness to the audiences and the participants. Laughing is a kind of exercise that nowadays people lack of. Initially, I believe that I could manage to hold my laughter in library when I was watching to Running Man. However, some of the scenes were extremely interesting and amusing. Even though I was covering my mouth, but my breathing was too intensive to attract people's attention. haha~
After watching an episode, I turned my face to the book and started to bury my head into the book gradually. At the mean while, I received a call. Guess what? My friend delivered my dinner to me. Well, it has been a long time since the last time I met and chatted with her. She doesn't look good actually, though she was trying to behave steady. We were chatting about ourselves and condition, while I was having my dinner gently. That was the first time I listened to her talking about her family and her life properly. We didn't really have one to one conversation, we did have but the conversations were all about Chinese Community. I did quite a pretty good job to know more about 11th CC members, though I realized that I have left her out unwittingly. She seldom talks about her family with us, I guess that was really unpleasant for her to share about her family.
During the conversation, I realized that her parents are typically traditional Chinese-background elders. They ain't open-minded to give their children freedom and treat them as adults. They insisted their children to follow their own will without really considering what their children want. As a result, they seldom communicate, as she finds no mutual understanding between them. Although she cares about what they say about her, but she doesn't want to do anything that is against her own will now. It is really lamentable to know about that and helpless to be lending my ears merely. Besides that, she is facing academical problem meanwhile. Her course is one of the most difficult subjects in UM. She is regret of her careless decision. However, I thank God that she chose to face those problems even though she doesn't really have any applicable solution.
Life is full with problems, isn't it? In my opinion, life without problems can never be meaningful as if we would never see the gorgeous rainbow unless we go through all the rains and storms.         

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