Offensive judgment

It is raining right now; I am going to write about a topic for my dissatisfaction. I go against the arrogant statements which are often unjust and biased. I can never stop people coming out with that kind of statements but I just don’t encourage people to admire people who make arrogant statements. That will never be something I would choose to admire and appreciate.

I often show dissatisfaction to some stereotypical statements. For instance, guys are heartless and useless, the species that uses the bottom of the body to think. What is so wrong with this statement? They do not know that we are all sinners who have lost the ability to do goods for the glory of God. They blame guys for creating damages to the relationship and being irresponsible most of the time. I am not trying to argue if men need to resolve all the messiness alone. I just hope that they can stop blaming each other and strive to find the resolution together by identifying their own responsibilities over all these. We are all accountable of all these saddening problems and undesirable destruction. When we are in a particular relationship, both parties are accountable by all means regardless their sex and background.

(Romans 3:23) For all have sinner and fall short of the glory of God.

Besides that, I dislike statements like “We never want to rely on guys, for guys are unreliable and getting more useless.” This statement makes you look smart or what. Once we were born, we are meant to be brought up by our parents. We needed to rely on our parents definitely and normally. However, when we grew up, we need to be independent for we have the ability to take a good care of ourselves. There is nothing to boast about for the decision of living without depending on somebody. It is because we know no one can take care of you forever. No one is forever there for you to help you, not even our own self, for we are often helpless in some tough situations. However, God is the only refuge which is everlasting and mighty; we can put our trust in Him.

(Psalm 62:7-8) On God rest my salvation and my glory; my mighty rock, my refuge is God.  Trust in him at all times, O people; pour out your heart before him; God is a refuge for us. Selah.

Other than that, I hate statements like “Guys are arrogant, immature, and unwilling to grow up.” What is the benefit of making that statement? Are you going to inspire and motivate guys to get improved with that statement? No way. This kind of statements can only bring harm rather to bring any constructive benefits. I encourage people to build up a cold wall between man and woman and sadly discourage people to appreciate each other with forgiveness. I strongly dislike the statement for this statement comes out from the self-arrogance and the ignorance of love. Who are we to judge other people while we are all sinners and falling short of the glory of God? We are on the same ship, the ship of damnation in fact without Christ. Once again, we need to stop judging and try to forgive and appreciate the people around you when we have no right to be judging.

(1 Corinthians 13:7) Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.

(Matthew 22:39) You shall love your neighbor as yourself.