People fear love (relationship), I find this kind of phenomena very common. I realized that the younger the generations, the more vulnerable and diffident they are. I have heard many opinions of my friends about relationship, mostly they judge that love is complicated and relationship is troublesome. In addition, they don't really know about the purpose of getting in a relationship. Many people will automatically come out with different opinions regarding its purpose. Anyway, since the truth of love is not really well-defined in the world, eventually love becomes one of the most fearful things people scare of. It is invisible and meanwhile mysterious. Hundreds of people wrote thousands of songs about love, those are romantic, sentimental, agitating and of other kinds.
We look for love but contradictorily we scare of getting into a relationship. We scare of getting hurt, once we fail in a relationship. We believe that kind of hurt can never be healed completely because many suicide cases were mainly due to the heartbroken relationship. Besides that, we have seen a lot of sad cases happening among our friends, and we don't hope that happen to us one day. I have asked a friend of mine about the determination of searching for good partner. He shared with me about his willingness to have a life partner for the rest of his life, it is some sort of wonderful wish in my opinion. I appreciate his honesty in the sharing. However, the fear of getting hurt keeps him from getting further to know girls and to realize his wonderful will deep down in his heart. I feel seriously sad for being helpless to encourage him, not everybody can take the risk and dry their tears anyhow.
Nonetheless, I still believe that we will never be able to enjoy the wonderful view of rainbow unless we go through the fearful storms and rains! What is the point for us to go through all these challenges just to see the view of rainbow? Why don't we just be satisfied of what we are having now and move on as usual? It is good to be self-satisfied so that we won't be unhappy, but I believe there are many more wonderful things and experiences that God has waited to grant us in the future. I strongly believe that life can be a brand-new one once after every single time we experience the grace of God. We shouldn't just be static and self-satisfied of whatever we have while we reject to explore in our life. We cannot feel good on our own while we reject to know the great things outside our comfort zone. Eventually, we are just like the frog at the bottom of the well which never enjoys the view outside the well.
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