Love is dynamic~

Early in the morning, I was lying on my bed, without bothering about the time as usual. I’m a like a boss of my life but I believe that I shouldn’t be a lazy boss after all. Anyway, my mum came into my room and woke me up. She likes to wake me up especially when she has something she wants to share. This time is not an exception; she had something to share with me. It is about my troublesome and selfish grandma. Anyway, I hope what I said can really comfort her and cheer her up effectively. 

She is a really funny grandma, in the way she behaves, I would find it interesting. She likes to watch television programs and curses the bad actors or actresses seriously. She likes to talk to herself especially some severe situations happened in the scene. My dad doesn’t like that kind of habit; he always finds it annoying and unpleasant. However, I would like to cooperate with my grandma by expressing my agreement. Maybe that’s the reason she likes me the most.(I think lar~)

However, it is really difficult to make her feel content. She likes to complain and criticize something that personally she feels unhappy with. If she likes you, you would always be right; but if she doesn’t like you, you can never be a little better to her anyway. My mum received some complaints after going back her hometown. That’s why she felt sad. The complaints were not directed to her though, but she just found that she shouldn’t complain that much because my grandma is actually having quite a good and comfortable life now.

It is really true to say that being happy and content requires self-ignorance. If you keep asking and expecting things to work for your will, you would find yourself never contented. Why? This is because things would never work just for our selfish will. Love is something dynamic like a dance, and it brings happiness due to its dynamic nature. If you insist to be the center of the rotation – the point that people dance around, you would end up to be the one who is non-dynamic. You would never enjoy in the dance party, because you didn’t even move yourself around something to dance enjoyably.

I have never seen a dance showcase performed by two dancers but one keeps dancing around a person; and the person stands static throughout the dance performance. That would never be a beautiful dance, because not both of them take part in the dance. A good dance especially international dance, its center of their rotation keeps on changing from time to time; it leads them to be wonderfully dynamic and energetic due to the cheerful non-stop movement and various changes of steps. The dancers would love to enjoy in that kind of dance, audiences would love to watch the dance as well.

It is like a couple who work for something but not for their selfish demands. They work for their future, the goods for both of them, the peace and hope they keep in store, and the love they are trying to realize and express. Sometimes one may mistake and consequently offend another, but another would love to forgive the one who made mistake because of the love they are trying to realize. After all, it is really a loving view for the outsiders to watch a lovely couple loving each other; it is also enjoyable to a couple for loving among themselves selflessly.