Not that easy though 3

Recently, I read something about sanctification. That takes a long process to sanctify someone who is adopted by God. No!! It is a whole life process actually. The theory is almost the same like the process of recovering of a patient. It takes time for the patient to get slowly recovered after an operation or a treatment until he gets fully recovered. Some say, friendship is like a book, it takes years to write it, but take a few second to burn it.

It’s second study week! But that is definitely not an ordinary one. Something happened within these few days. I heard that my juniors were being scolded by the seniors last few days ago. I was shocked when I was informed of that. I just found that reason of scolding them is quite unacceptable and insensible. Having a weak bond with your direct buddy in buddy system is not a bad thing actually. That is just not a good thing of course. However, it is personal will for someone to decide whether they want to do anything to better the bond of their buddy line. Besides that, it is both way cooperating to make it better effectively instead of one way alone.

I don’t find a good reason to rebuke them, because they are innocent after all. Meanwhile none of the juniors have offended or disrespected me before, so I don’t really have much comment on them. I understand the purpose for the seniors scolding the juniors is to remind them not to take the seniors for granted. However, we must understand that no one wanted to make the situation worse; just they don’t know how to better it. They may think that seniors have the duty to take care of the juniors, and juniors have the obligation to approach seniors automatically. If both of us don’t try to humble ourselves by putting aside the stupid pride in order to shorten the gab, consequently there are no ways we can get closer with each other.

In order to improve the relationship, honesty is very crucial. If you don’t feel like getting to know your friends, without honesty you will never be welcome even if you approach them initiatively. The honesty is required to be apparent so that people may be pleased because they know someone is interested to know them. Apart from that, effect to show your caring is also very significant. Honesty without effect is dead while effect without honesty is the work of hypocrites. With effect shown, people will realize your caring action and appreciate your kindness and gradually feel good to be with you.

Most of the course-mates refuse to open the door of their hearts to one another. However, they expect other people to open door for them. Thing will never work it that way. As what I say always being with people is like facing a mirror. If you smile, they will smile as return. If you run away from the mirror, no reflection will be found at last. Giving sincere compliments to your friends is to value your friends accordingly because we want people to acknowledge us as well. Giving attention to your friends is to make them feeling consequential, because no one is willing to be nobody.  

          

 Recently, I read something about sanctification. That takes a long process to sanctify someone who is adopted by God. No!! It is a whole life process actually. The theory is almost the same like the process of recovering of a patient. It takes time for the patient to get slowly recovered after an operation or a treatment until he gets fully recovered. Some say, friendship is like a book, it takes years to write it, but take a few second to burn it.

It’s second study week! But that is definitely not an ordinary one. Something happened within these few days. I heard that my juniors were being scolded by the seniors last few days ago. I was shocked when I was informed of that. I just found that reason of scolding them is quite unacceptable and insensible. Having a weak bond with your direct buddy in buddy system isn’t a bad thing actually. That is just not a good thing of course. However, it is personal will for someone to decide whether they want to do anything to better the bond of their buddy line. Besides that, it is both way cooperating to make it better effectively instead of one way alone.

I don’t find a good reason to rebuke them, because they are innocent after all. Meanwhile none of the juniors have offended or disrespected me before, so I don’t really have much comment on them. I understand the purpose for the seniors scolding the juniors is to remind them not to take the seniors for granted. However, we must understand that no one wanted to make the situation worse; just they don’t know how to better it. They may think that seniors have the duty to take care of the juniors, and juniors have the obligation to approach seniors automatically. If both of us don’t try to humble ourselves by putting aside the stupid pride in order to shorten the gab, consequently there are no ways we can get closer with each other.

In order to improve the relationship, honesty is very crucial. If you don’t feel like getting to know your friends, without honesty you will never be welcome even if you approach them. The honesty is required to be apparent so that people may be pleased because they know someone is interested to know them. Apart from that, effect to show your caring is also very significant. Honesty without effect is dead while effect without honesty is the work of hypocrites. With effect shown, people will realize your caring action and appreciate your kindness and gradually feel good to be with you.

Most of the course-mates refuse to open the door of their hearts to one another. However, they expect other people to open door for them. Thing will never work it that way. As what I say always being with people is like facing a mirror. If you smile, they will smile as return. If you run away from the mirror, no reflection will be found at last. Giving sincere compliments to your friends is to value your friends accordingly because we want people to acknowledge us as well. Giving attention to your friends is to make them feeling consequential, because no one is willing to be nobody.